Helping You Discover God's Design For Your Marriage

Marriage in Focus creates experiences for couples to connect meaningfully with God and one another.
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About Marriage in focus
Marriage in Focus is a 501(c)(3) Christian marriage ministry. We exist to glorify God by impacting marriages. Our mission is to resource couples with Biblical principles for a godly marriage and create experiences that refresh them allowing them to connect meaningfully with God and one another.
marriage
retreats
Experience Biblical teaching, fun, and relaxation in a small, intimate environment where you can grow and dream together.
premarital
coaching
Prepare for your marriage through multiple individual coaching sessions or through one and two day workshops, each focusing on biblical principles and practical insights on communication, finances, sex, conflict resolution and more.
One Minute Daily Focus
One Minute Daily Focus is a new resource from Marriage in Focus designed to help married couples connect daily. It is a quick way to prioritize what matters most in our marriage; depending on God together and growing spiritually. Follow One Minute Daily Focus on Instagram for a daily scripture, reflection question, and prayer!
what's distorting your vision?
We all enter marriage excited for what’s ahead, but as the memory of the wedding fades it’s easy to forget the purpose of marriage. Life’s activity demands attention, distractions come, and it's all too easy to lose focus of what matters. This is more than just a battle of scheduling or balance; it’s a spiritual one. From the beginning, the enemy of God has been dividing marriages, impacting generations of families.

Why does he do this? Because a healthy marriage displays the love and nature of God as few things can. Man and woman were designed in the image of God to be in partnership with God and one another, to be image bearers of God. To live this truth, we need to be able to see God's design for marriage.

If people can't see what God is doing, they stumble all over themselves; But when they attend to what he reveals, they are most blessed. Proverbs 29:18 MSG

Do you want your marriage to be blessed and to be a blessing? You need to be able to see what God has for you. That's what vision is...being able to see and think about the future with wisdom. You just have to FOCUS.
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We need to
see clearly.
When a marriage’s vision is distorted, communication suffers, sexual intimacy struggles, and everyday partnership loses its spark.
We need
an example.
Many people have never seen what a healthy marriage looks like, don’t even know what to look for or where to start. Studying Jesus as our model, we will see clearly how to love and serve one another.
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we need a different perspective of marriage.
The incredible truth is this: Marriage is designed by God, created for God and was never intended to be lived apart from God. One man and one woman, together with God at the center, to display his character and nature to the world. We are married not just for our pleasure, but to be on co-mission together with God.

For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed. Genesis 2:24-25

And that final verse shows God’s design for marriage. Naked and unashamed. A beautiful partnership of unity, trust, transparency, vulnerability, security and freedom.
how we help you put your marriage in focus
resource
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Be equipped with biblical teaching, godly principles and practical skills to have a thriving, healthy marriage.
refresh
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Experience a time for your soul and body to relax and unwind in a peaceful environment.
restore
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Return to God’s design and desire for your marriage to experience the fullness of this gift.
you'll leave feeling...
rested
Relax in a resort-like environment.  Enjoy great meals and great experiences. Slow down, unwind, dream and have fun.
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Focused
See clearly God’s design for marriage and have the necessary resources to live marriage confidently and with purpose.
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Connected
Experience closeness with God and your spouse in meaningful and intimate ways.  Build community with other couples and the Marriage in Focus team.
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you'll leave feeling...
rested
Lean back and relax in a resort-like environment. Sunset boat rides. Hammocks. Nature.
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Focused
Experience personal and intimate teaching sessions where we dive deep into God’s heart for marriage.
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Connected
Meet incredible people with shared values, and have time alone, away from the world, for a beautiful date night.
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During our premarital sessions, Chris and Karla prompted us into meaningful conversations that deepened our understanding of one another, God’s heart for us, and the true meaning of marriage (while also keeping it light and fun!). It has played a foundational role for us in our day-to-day as a married couple… in the big moments and the small ones!
anders & Abigail carlson
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Our marriage wouldn’t be the same without Chris and Karla’s premarital ministry. In each session, we learned more about each other, discovered practical tools that we still use in our marriage, and most importantly, received Godly values that have carried us through every season.
William & madi bradwell
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Our marriage is the healthiest and most Christ-centered as it has ever been, and we attribute so much of this to Chris and Karla’s investment in us. We are so excited for other couples to experience God’s hand through their ministry!
billy & morgan fisher
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Chris and Karla have been spiritual mentors, counselors and dear friends of ours for over 7 years now. Through the relationship we formed with them, they have helped us get through some very tough times in our marriage. We have learned how to communicate better, resolve conflict, serve each other selflessly, and put Christ at the center of all we do as we pursue each other.
adam & beth keeshan
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Our marriage wouldn’t be what it is without Chris and Karla. They met with us frequently and spent time pointing us to Jesus and strengthening us individually. Once we were engaged they led our pre-marital counseling, and since then we continue to talk about the immense impact our pre-marital counseling has had on our marriage. We worked to set expectations and talk through potential pressure points. Through our first two years of marriage, they have fought for us in prayer and we are forever grateful for that. They’ve been our advocate, a fountain of wisdom, and a source of encouragement.
Will & ashley macoy
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Chris and Karla are two of the most God-fearing, selfless, and wise people that we know. They are faithful servants to God, to each other, and to every single person around them. The wisdom and prayer that they have poured over our marriage directly points us to the foot of the cross and draws us closer to Jesus. We are so grateful for them and the lasting impact they've had on our marriage!
bo & izzy nix
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Invest in your marriage.
Learn, grow and dream together.
Return more in love with God and each other.
Come in wanting encouragement and connection and leave the retreat more in love with God and more in love with each other.